I went for a visit to California and was horny after a long day in meetings. I asked the hotel's concierge if there were any nearby gay bars, walking distance. He gave me the name and approximate location of an old-time gay bar. I walked to the bar, nervously approaching. I had never ventured into a gay bar and didn't know what to expect.

I was a little disappointed, but not totally. I am attracted to young men and most of the guys were more my age, about 40. Luckily there was one young guy, a law school student, I found out. He was very nice looking and a classy guy.