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Note To Black Women & White Men

Dear Black woman, I want you to know this. I'm in love with you. I think I'm in love with you. I want to be in love with you. Am I in love with you? Can I love you? Can you love me? I don't know. So many questions. Who am I? I'm the Brother with the Ivy League MBA who's leading a Fortune Five Hundred company into the twenty-first century. I'm the Brother who's smiling at you on the bus while wearing my Sean John's. I'm the Brother sitting in class at our town's community college, making goo-goo eyes at you. I'm the shy and totally square guy who suddenly dresses up thuggishly just to impress you because I overheard you say you like guys with edge. I'm the guy who's knocking dudes down like beach balls as I charge through the football field. I'm the nerdy guy with thick glasses pining for you in Sunday school. I'm the quiet deacon in church who always has a kind word for you when you enter.

I'm the old Brother in the barber shop who nods at you as you come in to pick up your son. I'm the Brother sitting in the back of the bus, astonished as you and your girlfriends say that all Black men are useless and that White men are perfect. I'm the Brother sitting in the President's Office in the White House, wondering how to fix a country. I'm the law-abiding Brother who just received some unkind words from a racist cop before he or she drove off, allowing me to keep my freedom and my life but robbing me of a piece of my dignity. I'm the Brother sitting in the restaurant with a White woman who's gay and just a friend of mine as you and your sisters walk through and shoot me a nasty glare. I'm the Brother you flash a look of superiority to as you suddenly grope your White boyfriend as you see me coming. I'm the Brother working two jobs to pay for my university education and yet I get looks of anger and disappointment from sisters as I walk down the street or through campus. I'm the Brother who gives up his seat for a sister and holds a door for her, only to get a surprised look from her.

I'm the Brother with the big dick starring in a porno movie, having sex with Black women, Hispanic women, White women and Asian women because to White audiences I'm a savage with a big dick and nothing more. I'm the Brother shaking my head as I watch sisters give up on Brothers. I'm the Brother who asked for your number and you started laughing in my face. I'm the Brother you sneered at as you sat on a White guy's lap. I'm the Brother who walked into the club with the Chinese chick and got a nasty look from you even as you did the bump and grind with a Hispanic guy. I'm the bisexual Brother who wants to tell you the truth about myself but I think you would reject me if you know so I keep my secret to myself. I worry about my health and well-being. I practice safe sex. I'm careful. And I haven't been with a dude ever since you came into my life, with your hot female sensuality and power. I'm still bisexual Brother but I love my woman and I want to be faithful to her. Does that count for anything? Or must you dismiss me as a freak simply because I was born different? I didn't choose this crap I swear! I'm the Brother in the police uniform who got a shady look from you because you assume I'm The Man's Rottweiler, hating on my Brothers and sisters just because I'm a cop.

I'm the Brother sitting in the therapist's office, wondering why I can't find love with a sister ( or with anyone) even though I'm a decent-looking, healthy, college-educated Brother with a good job, a nice apartment, a decent car and a clean record....oh, and I don't have any offspring yet either. Magazines and television programs tell me that as a single Black male with a college degree, a job and no brats, I'm supposed to be a magnet for Black women. What the heck? Sisters don't even notice I exist! I'm the good Brother, I swear. And if they do notice I exist, it's to shoot me a negative look as I dress up and head to work. Why do you assume that whenever a Brother finishes college and gets a good job he always ditches Black women for the nearest blonde-haired White chick? Sisters, you don't know what us Brothers talk about when you're not around. White women STILL switch sidewalks when they see Brothers coming. Think we LIKE that shit? Hell no! Only a small percentage of White women go for the Brothers, and only a small percentage of Brothers go for White women. Historically, more Black women have ( willingly or unwillingly) shared the beds of White men than Black men have shared the beds of White women. Yet you call us sell-outs. At the same time, you parade up and down with White men, treat them better than you would ever treat a Brother, and then get mad when the Brothers date and marry women of other races.

Want to know what Brothers fear? It's not racist cops who pump ninety nine bullets into innocent, unarmed and law-abiding young Black men and then claim it was self-defence. It's not bigoted White women falsely accusing us of rape. It's not the fact that out of all groups among humanity, supposedly we die the earliest. We take those grim statistics with a grain of salt. After all, the rulers of Europe, the United States of America, Canada, Australia and New Zealand always blame the Brothers for crime and poverty in minority communities but never admit that White men who lose their jobs tend to go home to shoot their wives and brats. Oh, yeah. You didn't know that one, did you? White men lead the world...in job loss-related suicides. They lead the world...in lining up to get neutered ( sorry, I meant vasectomies) even though a link has been established between vasectomies and a higher risk for prostate cancer. White women admit that oftentimes, the Brothers are nicer and more romantic with them than White men. Yet you'll never hear a sister say that a SINGLE Brother has treated her right in her entire life. It's almost as if sisters feel that the sky will fall if they admit that certain Brothers are actually decent.

Black men are the loneliest beings on God's green earth sometimes. I admit it. The whole world seems against us sometimes. Fake-smiling White women. Gun-toting and trigger-happy, racist and insecure White men. Oh, yeah. White male insecurity is a big thing these days. With women and so-called minorities becoming the majority of the work force in most developed countries, White men face a future where the powers holders won't necessary be from that wonderful bracket of White pseudo-masculinity. White women aren't content with being arm candy. They want a shot at being police chiefs, firefighter captains, corporate CEOs, senior partners at law firms and college presidents too. And they aspire to become president and prime minister in most of the world's top nations. White men HATE playing second fiddle. Most men, including Black men, also hate coming in second in front of women of any color but White men are addicted to power. And all those who hold onto power for too long are deathly afraid to lose it. To them, it's like saying the sun will not rise again.

White men with Black girlfriends or Black wives prefer dealing with those sisters who can't stand Black men because the presence of Black men makes ninety point nine percent of all White men nervous. We're too masculine. We have too much swagger. It's a male thing. The sister with the White boyfriend or White husband can't have too many male cousins, Brothers or other male relatives. And if she does, then he must isolate her from them because he's scared of them. Even if most of them really don't give a damn about who he sleeps with. The Brothers aren't player haters for the most part. The Brother whining about the Black woman who left him for Whitey gets told to shut up by the other Brothers. We tell him to move on. We are not insecure or anxious. In fact, our very presence provokes anxiety and insecurity among males of other races whether we like it or not.

White men are especially nervous around Black men. Long before money was invented and civilization was founded, men seized each other up by looking. Before they fought, they analyzed each other to gauge who might be stronger, faster and tougher. The truth is that Black men are built like warriors, a remnant from our ancient African ancestors who survived in a ruthless environment. White men aren't built like warriors. They're built like cunning spies, traitors, manipulators and backstabbers. Always about treacherous tactics rather than pure strength. Strength is something they lack. And not just physically. Take away a Black man's job and he will find something else to do. He will look deep within himself. He will find the will to continue. He knows that what makes him a man is not his job or his bank account. It's not what's between his legs either. It's his whole being, his heart and his soul. A White man who loses his job loses all sense of worth. To him, it's like being castrated and finding out he's got terminal cancer on the same day. He falls apart. His world has come crashing down. And he must take down his wife and offspring with him. He's the savage, not us. Just ask the ancestors of natives whom he slaughtered across the globe.

I'm told that Europe has a diversity problem. Apparently, the grandsons and granddaughters of African immigrants, Asian immigrants and Arab immigrants who came to Britain, Germany, Spain and other countries decades ago are reproducing much faster than the White men and White women of Europe. White men in Europe are especially distressed to hear that more than forty percent of Black males in the United Kingdom have White girlfriends or White wives, and they tend to produce more mixed-race offspring with these White women than White guys produce all-White offspring with White women. So they try their usual divide and conquer bullshit. Try to convince the Asians and the Arabs that the Black man is a savage. Unfortunately for them, minorities in Europe and North America have learned that to White men, all non-Whites are the same thing, a threat. That's why Blacks, Asians and Arabs united to riot against the racist White police force in London after an innocent Afro-Caribbean man was shot to death by the cops. Men from so-called minority communities in Europe and North America are winning the war against racist White men by having more offspring, both with minority ladies and with willing White women. The White guys can't stand this. The funny thing is that even White men with Asian girlfriends and White men with Black wives can't stand to see a White woman with a Black male.

The insecurities of White males have no bounds. When married to Asian women, they demand to be worshiped completely. Also, the Asian lady in question must stop speaking Chinese, Korean, Japanese or whatever and embrace Whiteness. Also, the Asian woman who is married to a White male had better not be more educated or successful than he is. His ego is the most fragile of all and can't take it. Same thing when the White male is married to a Black lady. She must distance herself from all Black males. It's preferable if she's the kind of dumb, damaged, self-loathing sister who hates Black men more than the police does. If she's a smart Black woman who's educated, and comes from a strong household with a loving Black father and doting Black mother, the White man knows he must navigate carefully. Such a Black woman might not see all White men as perfect demigods sent from heaven and visualize Black men as savage beasts whom she must hate. The White man always sows discord among those he targets. If he can't, like in the case of the Black woman who has positive relationships with her Black father and doesn't hate all Black men in her age group, he ( the White man) will try to play nice. All the while, in his heart of hearts, he wants to separate her from her own. Make her embrace Whiteness. And above all else, he will raise their mixed sons and daughters to see themselves as White or White-ish.

No White man wants to raise his mixed-race son to be a strong Black man. There's nothing he finds more than threatening. It's downright scary to him. A spitting cobra doesn't frighten him half as much. The White man's tactic of raising his mixed offspring to embrace Whiteness and distance themselves from their African heritage usually works better on their daughters than their sons. The daughters of White fathers and Black mothers seldom date Black men. Why? Their White father fears Black men. And their Black mother usually has nothing positive to say about the Brothers, that's why she dated/married Whitey in the first place. By sharp contrast, Black men with White girlfriends or White wives raise their mixed sons and mixed daughters to embrace their African heritage. Case in point? U.S. President Barack Hussein Obama identifies as Black, and that's mainly because his mother was White and his father was Black. Had his father been White and his mother Black, he would have distanced himself from all things Black. He would have chased someone like Faith Hill instead of Michelle Robinson. Face the facts.

The world we live in is a complicated place. My fellow Black men and I are just people looking for love. Just like everybody else. Our main problem is that everybody else seems out to get us. Including Black women. I encourage my Brothers out there to love themselves because no one else will. Many Black women hate us Brothers more than the racist cops do. To those Black women who still love Black men, I thank you. It's not easy loving a man who's got all of planet Earth gunning for him 24/7. To those White women who dare to love a Black man, I thank you as well. You know the extent of White men's racism and insecurity better than anyone because ALL White men have White mothers. A Black man can have a Black father and a White mother, an Asian mother, a Hispanic mother, a Native American mother or an Arabic mother but a White man must have a White mother and a White father. Otherwise White society will classify him as "one of the others". The White man knows how vulnerable his genetic makeup is. And he guards his genetic patrimony fiercely, though it's a war he's destined to lose. Nine out of ten times if a man goes to the doctor and finds out he's sterile, that man is C.A.U.C.A.S.I.A.N. Say what you will about Black men and other minority males, we got no problem making babies. Time for another kind of human being to lead the human race. I don't care who leads the planet as long as he isn't from the bracket of wickedness that is the White/Male combination. At least if he's Black, Asian, East Indian, Native American, Hispanic or Arabic, he'll have a normal level of goodness/badness as opposed to having a genetic predisposition toward imperialism, racism and genocidal tendencies.

My Black brothers, stay strong. Let's love ourselves and each other. I love all my Brothers, whether they are straight, bisexual or gay. I love them whether they are rich, middle-class, just getting by, working poor or totally homeless and destitute. I love you all. And I respect the women of all shades who love Black men. It's not easy loving a Black man, regardless of what race you are, what community you're from. It's like being the wife or girlfriend of a superhero who's constantly surrounded by villains. Have no fear, the Ultimate Villain the world has ever seen ( insert White and Male) is slowly but surely being defeated by nature. Tons of White guys are finding out they can't make babies. Others voluntarily get neutered ( oops I meant vasectomies) for reasons I can't fathom. Tons of White women are marrying and having offspring with Black men, Asian men, Hispanic men, Arabic men and Native American/Aboriginal men. And most of these offspring identity as 'minority' rather than 'White'. It's not their fault. The definition of Whiteness is very narrow. To be White, you need a White father and a White mother. To be a minority, you need a non-White parent. That's it, and you're in this club for life. Have no fear, minorities are becoming the majority. It's the new world order. And I love it. The wonderful thing is that White guys who get mad at White women who get with Black guys STILL lose when they get with Asian chicks or Black women as a form of revenge. The offspring they create won't meet the narrow-minded definition of Whiteness. And thus, they'll be 'minorities', members of the class destined to rule the planet as its new super majority in the future.

A lot of you reading this are shaking your heads. Do I hate White men? I don't hate them. I don't have to. I don't hate the Black women who worship them either. I was given a glimpse of the future...and there's no White in the rainbow. I love what I saw. It means that even if I don't always win in the dating game ( a lot of sisters are ditching the brothers) , I still win. Black male plus White female equals Black offspring. Black male plus Chinese female equals Black offspring. Black male plus Hispanic female equals Black offspring. Hell, Black female plus Indian male, or Chinese male, or Hispanic male, STILL equals Black offspring. Black female plus White male DEFINITELY equals Black offspring. The Black woman and the White male she procreates with can raise their mixed sons and daughters to embrace all things White and reject their African heritage all they want...they will still be rejected by the world's narrow-minded definition of Whiteness. If you have a non-White parent, you can't be White. You're a minority. The bigots who think they run the world reject you now and forever. Smarten up and join the minority revolution. We're tomorrow's super majority. And we'll happily vote AGAINST affirmative action for White guys when they become a minority. And that day isn't far off. Give it two decades. I look forward to it.

Tonight, I sleep soundly and happily. I'm a Black man with a college degree from America studying at a top university in Canada's capital region. I'm a professional licenced to work in America and Canada. I can have my pick of ladies of any color. It's really too bad that I'm surrounded by Black women who don't like Black men, don't believe in the Black community and think Black love is nonexistent. It's really too bad that those same Black women think Black men are slime balls and White men are God's gift to planet Earth. Never mind that their legacy of genocide, racism and imperialism definitely proves otherwise. I live in a place where interracial love is common and Black men are more daring than most. Black men from Somaliland, Djibouti and Ethiopia enter the Mosques as Muslims and seduce beautiful Arabic women and Persian women. Black men walk around holding hands with tall, beautiful, blonde-haired and blue-eyed White women in shopping centers, government offices, movie theaters, restaurants and business centers. Let White men hate on us all they want. They no longer matter. Their day has come and gone. They just don't know it yet. Look at the clock, fellas. Tick, tock.

Now, in my heart and soul, sometimes I yearn for the Black woman. Millions of years of evolution and genetic encoding can't be shrugged off overnight. However, why must she always be so hard on me while she's always so nice to White guys? I'm the most embattled and unenviable human being on the planet. Don't I deserve a lady who will be nice to me? I think so. I guess that means I have to date White women since most Black women are busy cussing Black guys, worshiping White men as demigods, or complaining about the dearth of decent Black men while giving nasty stares to Black college men walking down the street. Yeah, it's a perfect world I live in. I can't run from it. So I embrace it. It's my gift. It's my curse. I'm a Black man. That makes me a warrior. The last warrior. I can endure things that would break any other man mentally and physically. Human evolution made me this way. As the man who constantly endures, survives and overcomes the worst that mother nature and bigoted human society has to throw at me, I'm the pinnacle of human evolution. The Black man is evolving through hardship and struggle. The White man has stagnated because the universe kisses his butt daily and he turns suicidal at the first sign of true hardship. A sure sign of weakness. That's why my demographic is on the rise. We can be Presidents of mighty nations and CEOs of big companies now, and still beat up certain insecure pale bozos in the boxing ring before taking blonde beauties home for a night of fun. It's good to be a Black man in twenty-first century planet Earth. My brothers, let's get educated, let's stay strong and let's love one another. The scariest Black man in the eyes of today's society is not the wannabe thug, the rapper or the baller, it's the educated one who's smart and knows what's going on. Sisters, if you love us, we thank you. You can be our queens. If you hate us and worship the others, that's okay too. I think you KNOW for a fact that we can find someone else ( of any color) in the blink of an eye. Peace.
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