You have been living with your girlfriend for many years. Kat is a graduate student, she’s very cute, with long brown hair and blue eyes. She is a little self-conscious about her body, but you love her voluptuous curvy hips, her bouncy little breasts, and her firm round ass. Your relationship has been fine in recent months, but it’s fair to say you are not ready for marriage—you were barely ready to move in together, but your financial situation required you to live with your girlfriend. While much of the excitement has been stripped from your relationship, you still love Kat and want things to improve. The two of you have tried to spice up your sex life by engaging in more foreplay, but you are both quite bored in the bedroom. The main challenge is that Kat wants to wait until you are married before having sex. You know she is not a virgin, though she never talks about her life before you. She tells you she wants to wait to make sex extra special.

It was a Friday afternoon when you came up with an idea of how to spice up your love life. Kat arrived home from her last class of the week shortly after you returned from work. You had the whole weekend together and no plans. This was a perfect time to try something new.

Friday started as it typically does. You opened a bottle of wine, pour a glass for Kat and yourself, put on some music, and you both change into relaxing clothes.

“How was class?” you ask Kat.

“Eh, fine. I’m just glad it’s the weekend,” she says, taking a sip of her wine.

“So is there anything you want to do this weekend?”

“I don’t know; I’m up for anything,” Kat replies. “This wine tastes great. I’m happy just to stay in and get cozy. Maybe open another bottle after we finish this one,” she says as she winks at you.

She is a very happy drunk, though neither of you typically drink enough to get drunk. Tipsy, but never too drunk. She always gets a little frisky when she’s tipsy, so you are happy to pour her a second glass.

Now seems like a great time to make your move.