For every jest towards a man saying he only thinks with one part of his anatomy, it is no wonder why many consider male sexuality as simple and unequivocal despite its complexity rivalling that of human behaviour on a whole. Men are more than just the organ between their legs, they are also the one that lives in their heads. The mind dictates much of a man's attitudes, principles, feelings and experiences, with a varied background, either cultural, political or even legal, impacting how they express their sexuality.

Like women, men have perceptions as to their sensual being. They experience fantasies and hunger for pleasures with their own bodies and the bodies of others. They hold varying attitudes and understanding regarding their sexual health and the ramification resultant from such. Like women, men desire intimacy and trust as much as they crave lust and sexualisation.

For every young lad trying to sneak a peek at a young woman in the restaurant, there is one attempting to do so toward a young man. Or not at all.

For every dude trying to get buff to attract a potential mate at the gym, there is one just seeking to maintain sublime health. Or just working to gain that optimal body for their own.

Just like there are macho men that adore wearing pink or dresses for fun, there are similar fellows that would not even dare partaking in such behaviours.

But if this is all true, why is male sexuality so one-sided? Where are those tales? Those varied experiences? Well. They might be here…

In this series, men of varying backgrounds have stories that reflect on their sexuality in some shape or form. Whether concerned about coming out to a family member or friend to more jovial and embarrassing matters like having their first kiss…or getting caught jerking off.

Maybe here, we can understand the complexities of male sexualities.

Maybe here, we can gain a better appreciation for it.