What's up, my brother? I'm Hodan Ahmad, a Somali Muslim sister living in the City of Gatineau, Quebec. The six-foot-tall, curvaceous, athletic cutie in the Hijab who simply sets your imagination on fire. That's me. I've got some good news, for all Black men in the Ottawa/Gatineau area who are into BDSM, and female domination. Black Femdom, there's an APP for...
Really, this is one of those situations that I've heard of so many times that it actually contributed to my impetus to start writing about all of this. I recently received a mail from a man in a long term relationship requesting advice. He indicates that while this relationship of his is healthy and solid, it's also exclusively vanilla, and he wishes to expl...
An Editorial On A D/s Relationship: What makes a Good Dominant/Master (In the editorial I will say Dominant/Him and sub/she as that is what pertains to me, but I believe it is true for A/all) * * * * * What should a Good Dominant be? The question can only be answered individually, by both the submissive and the Dominant alike. The Dominant should be in co...
Dan lifted an eyebrow and asked her to explain about the spankings with her ex husband. With that Eva began to relate a spanking episode. "He told me one night that he had always wanted to tie me up and spank me. I had always had a fantasy of being the fair maiden captured by the wicked pirate, so I agreed to try it. I got dressed up in an old nightgown. I...
They'd expected an awkward moment when they first met Him. No matter how many pictures and texts they'd exchanged, there's always that hesitation just before physically meeting someone you expect or at least hope will be a new sex partner. It was all pretty new to them, really. Oh, they fiddled around with the idea before, read erotic stories, watched pornos...
The author of "Fifty Shades of Gray" did an excellent job of playing on the words, her main character's name and the concept expressed by "fifty shades." There are so many variations expressed, most especially when it comes to sexuality, that fifty is probably too small of a number. That said, I was thinking about various terms in common use and how they cou...
I had heard about her, hell almost everyone with any link to the outside world has heard about her. Still, I had never seen her or had any real evidence that she existed. I had heard how she had stopped sexual harrassment in office buildings. I heard how she had encountered a man trying to rape a girl in an alley and had broken both of his arms. But I guess...
I must admit that when I first met Hodan "Danni" Suleiman, the possibility that she might be a dominatrix never occurred to me. The prim and proper, hijab-wearing, short but cute Somali sister walking through the halls of Carleton University in her long skirt, with the Koran tucked under her arm seemed like the picture of Islamic feminine decency and respons...
Looking back he should have known from their first date. The way she ignored his attempts to bait her for information, the way her eerie gray eyes stared him down when she choose to look at him, but especially when he went to get the check. She had reached for her purse and he had reached across the table as if to stop her, saying "no, let me". She had stopp...
The weird things that some of my boyfriends ask me to do to them never cease to amaze me. Seriously. The name is Mika Adewale. A six-foot-tall, athletic and muscular, short-haired and dark-skinned Nigerian woman living in the city of Ottawa, Province of Ontario. I have a thing for sexually submissive Black men. And I don't really hide it. It's put me at odds...