My assumption of you, the reader, is that you are a woman whose husband or boyfriend is sexually submissive. He may have expressed an interest in exploring this with you. Perhaps you are already exploring this dynamic but are looking for additional suggestions to try with him. You may also be a man who hungers to submit to a woman but need something to show...
DISCLAIMER: First of all, let me start by stating the obvious; I am not a psychologist, nor a sexuality researcher. I am just a woman who has had various experiences in my life and choose to share them with my readers. So this being said, the reader should take any information provided in these pages as being anecdotal to my experiences and not an exhaustive...
She was face down on the bed, her arms behind her back. The ropes tied to her wrists and ankles were taut. The submissive's body was nude: Mistress loved her so. The only cloth on her body was the black silk blindfold, an article commanded to wear once she closed the front door. Her ass was red, darker lines showed where the crop hit her the hardest. She wa...
The world would run much more smoothly if everyone knew their place. My name is Kristin Jill Peterson and I firmly believe we all have our place in this world. Some of us must lead. The rest of us must serve. I belong to the category of leaders. I'm a five-foot-eleven, kind of chubby and big-bottomed, blonde-haired and green-eyed Irishwoman living in the cit...
FOURTH NIGHT I was talking to my Boss when DM arrived for me and he was saying things to make me feel horny and have energy for the night. I was really ready and also glad it was the end of the beauty pageant. When I went out to DM I greeted him in the proper way and I kissed his shoes for him. I don't know if any of my neighbours saw me do that. In his ca...
Black women are bossy, they always try to dominate Black men, and they have an attitude problem. Giving that such 'facts' are common knowledge, you'd think it would be easy for a submissive Black man to find a 'bossy' Black woman, right? Well, as a lifestyle BDSM person, I can tell you with one hundred percent certainty that this isn't true. My name Jean-Cha...
I have been married to a very very dominate husband for over 40 years (Me Being the total wimp and the submissive one all that time) being afraid to be in control for no reason. Things have changed since I became the dominant one in our relationship. No more mouthing off to me. I'm am now addressed as Goddess. Becoming a dominant is a life style that is gre...
~~~~~~ Note: this is my first essay submitted to the site, and I am curious to see the thoughts it generates, so please take a moment and tell me what you think. ~~~~~ My Daily Reminder that a commitment to the D/s lifestyle must be taken seriously. In my research I came across some writings that helped me understand many things about the life I lead. Tha...
An Editorial On A D/s Relationship: What makes a Good Dominant/Master (In the editorial I will say Dominant/Him and sub/she as that is what pertains to me, but I believe it is true for A/all) * * * * * What should a Good Dominant be? The question can only be answered individually, by both the submissive and the Dominant alike. The Dominant should be in co...
With winter coming and having just moved into a new one bedroom apartment, I was looking for some diversion. My situation had me down. I lost my job about a year ago, and have been skimming by working afternoons and evenings at a mall store selling candles. They are hiring for the holidays, so at least I know that will be steady and I may even get some overt...